How to Secure Visitation Rights For a Noncustodial Parent
A noncustodial parent still has the right to see their children. If you have a custody order, it will be easier to obtain visitation because it will be the court has signed off on the order. Working with the custodial parent to come to an agreement that is best for the two of you is important.
- Follow the custody order you and the custodial parent have agreed to. If you don’t have one, it is wise to find a lawyer to help create a plan that works for both parties. The custody order gives exact days and times the child will be with each parent, including school holidays and birthdays.
- Make sure you are very flexible when arranging a schedule with the custodial parent. At times, the other parent may want to keep the child during your normal visitation hours. If this is a problem, consider overlooking it because you may have to reschedule in the future. Work with them and keep in mind what is important for your child.
- Document violations the other parent commits. Keep a calendar or notes about the visitation interference, as well as attempts to reschedule. A lawyer can use this pattern of behavior to help you change the visitation agreement in court. If the custodial parent abuses an order, the visitation may be modified.
- Seek assistance in maintaining a custody order from the police if it is allowed in your state. Many times, letting the custodial parent know you're going to get the police involved works.
- Be on time to pick up and drop off your children at the designated hours. Have a normal routine for children to adjust. Make sure the kids are clean and fed when dropping them off.