How to Survive at a Private High School
High school has been the legendary subject for a many a song, poem, movie and play. We have all been exposed to the "Facts of Life" while struggling to fit into a "Glee" like environment. High school is and will always be the source to a person's inspiration. If only we could all survive high school without the need for a shrink later in our adult years. And let's not even discuss going to a private high school. "As if"!
- Visit the school. Find out as much as you can before enrolling there. Check out the clubs, the groups, the people who goes there, even the cafeteria. See if you can accompany or "shadow" a student for the day to get a good feel for what is to come. Be sure to choose schools that you have a good chance at being accepted in; no need to shadow if there is no way in the world you'll be accepted into that specific school.
- Become involved in things that you enjoy doing. Do this especially if you are particularly good at doing specific types of activities. Don't limit yourself to doing stuff that you are good at doing, however. Take a chance and join activities that you have always wanted to join.
- Follow the rules. Read the code of conduct book carefully and be the "good" student. Even if you aren't the most popular person with your fellow students, your teachers, faculty and staff will notice and this is great for recommendations for college. Don't stand out as the "rebel"; yes, you might look cool, but while you are getting singled out for being yourself, your fellow students are not only sitting back and talking about how stupid you are, they are acing their tests and getting into all the best schools.
- Take advantage of the tutoring offered. Private schools can be challenging, especially academically. If you are bad in math, swallow your pride and get help. Sometimes, a teacher will grade you on the curve, or give you extra points for getting the help that you need, even if you still aren't the best with the subject.
- See a counselor. When times become challenging, especially socially, talk to someone who is a bit more experienced in life. A counselor is great because they are a neutral third party. They are also sworn to secrecy, so you shouldn't have to worry about your business getting all over the campus.