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Sample Wedding Invitation Wording for Non-Traditional Weddings

A wedding invitation is the first look into the celebration of any couple.  By reading the invitation, guest can make a variety of assumptions including formality, theme, reception, length of ceremony and the serious or light-heartedness of the wedding.  Traditional invitations are usually very similar; but untraditional weddings provide a little more creativity when writing the invitation.

Instead of “You are cordially invited” or “The parents of the bride and groom” . . .



  • Come to a celebration of friendship and love

  • Please join us

  • Come fly with us

  • Join the party

  • Celebrate with Johnny, or Johnny's new parents (if there are children)

  • Witness two families joining together

  • We are tying the knot

  • Come eat, drink and be merry!

  • Check out our wedding website--it will tell you everything you need to know about the wedding, reception, food, cake, dinner and drinks.  You might even get a sneak peek at the wedding dress.


Instead of first, middle and last names of both the bride and the groom . . .



  • Use only first names

  • Eliminate the parent names of both the bride and the groom

  • Add children’s name (if applicable)

  • Use nicknames or pet names (be sure everyone is aware of these names--Grandma may not understand her granddaughter is marrying Pooh Bear)

  • We’re goin’ to the chapel and we’re gonna get married


Instead of “joined together in holy matrimony” . . .



  • Join hands as one

  • Seal hearts as one

  • Become one in spirit

  • Display their love to each other

  • As we take this trip of a lifetime

  • As we exchange vows


Instead of RSVP . . .



  • Let us know you will be attending

  • We’ll expect you for dinner and dancing following the ceremony

  • Call us if you can come

  • Email or reply to a Facebook post

  • We have reserved two seats for you

  • Be there or be square!

  • Post a memory or comment on the wedding blog