Refuge of Grace Academy

I forgot to mention that this crazy cult also preaches about the inferiority of women..they will try to brainwash your daughter into thinking she shouldn't work, that she should be a submissive wife and basically be a house mom for her whole life, as if it were 1642 or something.

I highly suggest you DO NOT give up your daughter to Bud and Debbie, she will hate you for it and they will break her down and try to build her back up as a robot..a robot with no opinion that is too afraid to speak up for herself. Trust me, I speak from 19.5 months of experience.

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Feel free to contact me and I'll give you any information you want on these horrible, evil people.

Refuge of Grace Academy will be shut down for child abuse!

Hello. My name is Heather and Debbie absolutely hates me because I will never be quiet about the horrible experience I had at Refuge. To hear my whole story, please type in Speak Out Against Boarding School Abuse on Facebook Causes. Or just use this link http://www.causes.com/causes/542153 There you can read my whole story. Feel free to contact me on FB about any questions you might have about this awful, evil place. I cna't believe they haven't been shut down yet! I won't be much longer...

Did you really think that every 'girl' would listen to you once they left? or that every 'girl' would agree and approve of your actions? you must start thinking rationally and logically.... MUST. you are ruining young womens LIVES. this is not a joke anymore. stop using religion and God to live tax free. stop using religion and God to make money.... STOP. get a real job and stop using girls' lives. they are not play dolls, they are humans!! with feelings and if you REALLY want the best for them, you will shut down and stop giving them credits that do not exist.

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http://www.secretprisonsforteens.dk/fornitswiki/index.php/Refuge_of_Grace_Academy

*It's been over 2 years

I went to this boarding school for 19 1/2 months. I got over 2 years since I got out and I still have nightmares and wake up in the middle of the night in cold sweats. I had been completely brainwashed and abused, I had no idea who I was, and I was totally and utterly miserable. Not once in my entire 19 1/2 months there did Debbie Martin, the owner and director of the boarding school, ask me how I was doing, what was on my mind, what I was struggling with, or just even had a decent conversation with me about the weather. She couldn't care less about me. She was all in for my mom's money. They monitored our phone calls and letters so we couldn't inform our parents of the abuse we were going through, and she would lie to my mom and tell her I was rotten evil child. She did everything in her power to make me miserable. I hated life...

Don't worry girls, one day karma will have her sweet revenge. Go to Yelp.com, let's start making an even louder statement. We will not be forced to be silent like we were while we were students. People will know the truth and Refuge will be shut down. All of those girls will be set free. God is not on their side, they make a mockery of God and religion. Don't give up girls.

REMEMBER, GO TO YELP.COM AND START WRITING TRUTHFUL REVIEWS ABOUT WHAT YOU WENT THROUGH!

dreamcenter.org is you're a really desperate parent. please do not send your daughter to refuge. please don't do that to her.

Refuge of Grace Academy literally almost killed me. It was the lowest point I've ever been in my entire life. Please visit Yelp.com and post reviews girls. People need to know the truth so they don't make the deadly mistake of sending their kids there. God bless.

I came home for 2 months after I got out of Refuge thanking my family&God,then I ended up back at Refuge,I thought my life was over.I Stayed there for 4 months exacly,while my time there for the 2nd time I experienced hell there again,ya know coming back I thought I knew how to play the system but they just made it harder on me because I acted like I knew everything.I got into A.C.E while I was there and im supposed to be a sophmore but they decided to put me in6th grade messing my high school years up.Schooling there was not accurate,time went by and i got into some trouble.Cathy Wilkie made every girls time there a living hell,if she wasnt happy neither were they girls.On January 9th.2010 I got kicked out of Refuge becasue of my sexuality.Knowing that Debbie and Bud knew I was gay before I came there.But they kicked me out stealing all of my parents money.ALL THEY DO IS TAKE UR MONEY,this is not a place to send your daughters too.Trust me there are many girls that could tell you this

to the post below, it doesnt shock me that debbie and bud did that. they are really not nice people and for them to claim they are Christians is an insult to the religion.

they are power hungry. post below is a good example. another good example, even though its little, its a good example. bud wouldnt allow the girls to have short hair, but his wife debbie kept hers short. the poor girls that had thin stringy hair had to grow it out and it did nothing for them. power hungry people!!!! they just want to give orders and be in charge. do not believe anything they tell you!

i sent my child there. with a promise from debbie she could help my child. with the knowledge that she was confused i thought about her sexual identity and debbie said we can help her and knew what my child thought she was took our money made us commit to a yr and threw her out because of her sexual identity after 15000, sent her home and its been hell but not that alone i have another grace kid. whos adopted parents sent for a couple yrs threw her away and quit paying at 18. they put her on a bus to st louis with20 dollars and the name of 3 woman shelters.18 alone with no diplomadont waste your money and dont trust these people. i swear on the bible this is the truth. debbie and bud shame on you for what you did to natalia and jordan so you know its not over yet . you cant promise you can deliver than quit and you cant takemoney from a parent that doesnt care about their kid and throw them away like they did. shame on you both.for her and jordan we are gonna persue this