Steps to Funeral Planning
It can be an overwhelming ordeal when a loved one dies. The last thing on your mind is taking care of all the final arrangements. It is best to be prepared to handle funeral planning than be caught off guard, which adds pressure and stress.
- If possible, plan ahead by talking with the person while they'll alive. It may be the case for those reaching progessed age or a long term illness. This isn't possible for all situations, but may be appropriate to talk about their funeral wishes.
- After the actual death, the family and friends should be reached immediately. They will need time to deal with the news and make suitable planning to attend the funeral, especially if they live out of town.
- Make sure to contact the funeral home, if you do not have one, shop around. Check some funeral homes in the area to see if they can save you money, if finances are an concern.
- Find out from the funeral director what documents and information you need. You are required to present a Death certificate, Social Security number, the date and place of birth, cemetery information and a photo of the deceased.
- Create an obituary. When writing the obituary, include all of their accomplishments, education, spouse, children and grandchildren. If anyone would like to have a small paragraph of a memory or farewell letter, that could be added as well.
- Plan a gathering for after the funeral. Choose a location for everyone to come see one another and remember the life of the deceased.